Friday, March 18, 2005

She's the object of his obsession

Review: In its O.C. premiere, 'Boy Gets Girl' takes a literate
approach to the lurid subject of romantic stalking.
By ERIC MARCHESE
Special to the Register

In the movies, and in musicals, "boy meets girl, boy woos
girl, boy gets girl." Happy ending, end of story.

What often happens in real life, though, is that girl doesn't
want boy after meeting him. So, what if he's unwilling to
forget her and move on, and instead of "getting" the girl, he
turns to trying to "get" her?

That's the question playwright Rebecca Gilman explores in "Boy
Gets Girl," taking viewers, from the woman's viewpoint,
through a nightmare scenario that escalates from a seemingly
innocent blind date to being pursued by a stalker.

Rude Guerrilla Theater Company gives Gilman's 2000 play its
Orange County premiere and, in doing so, lets half the
population in on what it's like to be on the receiving end of
a man's obsessive behavior. Yes, the experience is unpleasant
for both sexes to have to witness, and, yes, the plot takes
things in certain directions that are more or less predictable
- but "Boy Gets Girl" is also thoughtful and literate, has a
marked sense of humor, and avoids degenerating into the kind
of lurid thriller someone of lesser skill than Gilman might
make of it.

We're with Theresa Bedell on a blind date with a guy named
Tony. At first, Tony, a Midwest transplant to New York City,
seems refined and pleasant. His smiling façade and
self-deprecating manner, though, can scarcely hide such red
flags as his being overly inquisitive about Theresa's
education, career and life, and trying to force things too
soon.

At Rude G, David Pond's performance makes it obvious that
something is terribly wrong: Tony is too eager, gives off an
air of desperation and is just plain manic.

Against her better judgment, Theresa agrees to a second date,
and it's at this point that Jenn Carnett's portrayal of
Theresa really starts to jell. Tony reveals too much
information about himself, too soon. He grills Theresa about
herself. He's intensely insecure and desperately needy.

Uneasy, the alarm bells ringing, Theresa cuts the date short.
What happens over the next few scenes is a downward spiral of
hellish events that disrupt Theresa's carefully ordered life
as a single woman with a successful career as a writer at a
national culture-and-politics magazine. Tony's life,
meanwhile, revolves around showing up at her office
unannounced, sending her flowers and cards daily, finding her
unlisted home phone number and calling her incessantly at work
and at home.

Gilman begins her tale innocently enough, then tightens the
noose, all while showing how Theresa's life gradually
implodes. Director Jody J. Reeves guides her cast to underplay
the text, emphasizing realism over sensationalism - a wise
choice, because Gilman's script so intelligently layers its
various themes, and peppers them with literary references,
that a sleazier, more graphic approach would torpedo the
script.

Carnett creates, then develops, a consistent characterization
- a literate, intelligent, self-reliant woman with a disarming
Brooklyn accent and soft, slightly self-effacing manner. As
Tony ignores her pleas to be left alone, the desperation in
Carnett's voice grows, and the actress takes us through every
level of emotional distress the role requires: self-doubt,
tears, distrust of the motives of male colleagues offering
help, and a mounting sense of panic. Being stalked makes her
re-evaluate every aspect of her life, affecting her view of
herself. Like a rape, it's a violation of her personal space
that discolors everything. (As a clever change-up, Amber Scott
is wholly unruffled - and even a bit butch - as the female
detective assigned to Theresa's case.)

Tony aside, Gilman uses three key male characters to explore
male-female relationships. Mercer (Alex Dorman), Theresa's
newest colleague, argues that "normal male heterosexual
behavior is somewhat psychotic," fueled by a culture that
teaches men to look only at women's bodies, and women to
desire that they be looked at. Howard (Kurt Jarrard),
Theresa's gum-chewing editor and platonic buddy, argues that
such behavior is biological and ingrained. Les Kennkat (D.E.
Fitzgerald), a sexploitation-film director (and Russ Meyer
parody, we presume) whom Theresa is profiling in a feature
article, supports Howard's theory: He's a harmless old man
with a dirty mind whose crude views and career choice rub
Theresa the wrong way when her confidence in the male of the
species is at its lowest.

Credit Gilman for the ingenious way she draws in these other
male viewpoints to provoke our own thoughts on the subject.
Credit Reeves for soft-pedaling these guys, and Dorman,
Jarrard and Fitzgerald for laying off on the testosterone.
Cynthia Huyck's set design, one of the company's best, adds
authentic detail to the magazine office and Theresa's
apartment, while Erika Tai's sound design slyly plays up the
obsessiveness that boy-girl romances take on in the pop
culture arena.






THEATER Vol. 10 No. 28 March 18 - 24, 2005

Are You Looking at My Tits?
Boy Gets Girl gets mired in objectivism
by STACY DAVIES


The need for heterosexuals to understand the
opposite sex is a timeless theme that will just
not go away, no matter how much some of us wish it
would. It’s a complex problem that consumes most
men and women, and in Rebecca Gilman’s Boy Gets
Girl, the playwright explores the question most
prevalent in hetero minds for the past 30 years:
Are women conditioned to seek objectification,
thereby giving men permission to objectify them?
The answer is not easily attainable, so Gilman
doesn’t answer—instead offering more Mars vs.
Venus ruminations such as: Do men think they know
you because they like your ass? Do women want male
ass with personality? Or something like that.
Leading us through this mire of straight confusion
is Theresa Bedell (Jenn Carnett), a smart and
somewhat sassy writer for The World magazine who
goes on a blind date with seemingly average Tony
(David Pond). He’s immediately into her; she’s
immediately not. But Theresa is “conditioned” by
society to accept all flattery and be polite about
it, so she goes on a second date. This time, she
plays the “it’s not you, it’s me” card to get rid
of Tony; unfortunately, Tony is a nutjob. He calls
her repeatedly, filling up her answering machine,
sends her flowers every day, and shows up
unexpectedly at her work offering her a
psychoanalysis of why she’s so afraid of getting
close to someone. In short, Tony does what all
males are told to do in every romantic chick flick
ever made. Except that he eventually turns
violent.
Theresa gets a restraining order, and has
philosophical conversations with her male boss and
male coworker—two nice guys—about her conditioned
female failings, and she conducts some
antagonistic interviews with a Russ Meyer-esque
filmmaker, Les Kennkat (a hilarious Dee
Fitzgerald), who likes to make films about women
with watermelon-sized boobs.
It’s all very long, and the insights are few.
Perhaps we’re supposed to discuss it on the drive
home with our partners, but the only logic that
emerges is that there are creepy men and creepy
women out there, so beware. Oh, and don’t let any
more guys see When Harry Met Sally—just rent them
a titty flick, please.
BOY GETS GIRL, PRESENTED BY RUDE GUERRILLA AT THE
EMPIRE THEATER, 200 N. BROADWAY, SANTA ANA,
(714) 547-4688. THURS., MARCH 24 & 31, AND FRI.-SAT.,
8 P.M.; SUN., 2:30 P.M. THROUGH APRIL 2. $10-$20.